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EUSAw: It’s how we get along
Doug Burford 3/25/20 Doug Burford 3/25/20

EUSAw: It’s how we get along

Do these first, if trying to get along…. EUSAw: Empathize. Understand. Support. Affirm. And wonder aloud.

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How to Pray for People During Hard Times
Doug Burford 3/18/20 Doug Burford 3/18/20

How to Pray for People During Hard Times

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Fear
Doug Burford 3/13/20 Doug Burford 3/13/20

Fear

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Did you win this Christmas?
Doug Burford 1/2/20 Doug Burford 1/2/20

Did you win this Christmas?

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Empty Nest & Retirement Years as Invitations to Re-Create Shared Meaning
Doug Burford 12/3/19 Doug Burford 12/3/19

Empty Nest & Retirement Years as Invitations to Re-Create Shared Meaning

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Forgiveness - by Fred Luskin
Doug Burford 11/14/19 Doug Burford 11/14/19

Forgiveness - by Fred Luskin

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Be nice
Doug Burford 11/14/19 Doug Burford 11/14/19

Be nice

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Marriage is a Tango
Doug Burford 11/5/19 Doug Burford 11/5/19

Marriage is a Tango

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Married and Divorced for the Same Reason
Doug Burford 10/21/19 Doug Burford 10/21/19

Married and Divorced for the Same Reason

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5 R's on the Path to Understanding
Doug Burford 9/11/19 Doug Burford 9/11/19

5 R's on the Path to Understanding

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The Bully Spouse
Doug Burford 9/11/19 Doug Burford 9/11/19

The Bully Spouse

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Why married couples stop talking to each other
Doug Burford 4/23/18 Doug Burford 4/23/18

Why married couples stop talking to each other

Why would a couple so engaged in conversation when dating, essentially stop talking to each other?

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Doug Burford 8/21/17 Doug Burford 8/21/17

Other-centeredness

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Home as attachment haven
Doug Burford 8/24/16 Doug Burford 8/24/16

Home as attachment haven

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The Heart Bone's Connected to the Brain Bone: an exposé on Phenethylamine, Dopamine, and Oxytocin
Doug Burford 2/27/16 Doug Burford 2/27/16

The Heart Bone's Connected to the Brain Bone: an exposé on Phenethylamine, Dopamine, and Oxytocin

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Two Equal and Opposite Errors
Doug Burford 1/23/16 Doug Burford 1/23/16

Two Equal and Opposite Errors

It all begins with an idea.

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Best Christmas Gift: Extending Unconditional Love
Doug Burford 12/22/15 Doug Burford 12/22/15

Best Christmas Gift: Extending Unconditional Love

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All Relationships Come Down to This
Doug Burford 6/25/15 Doug Burford 6/25/15

All Relationships Come Down to This

It all begins with an idea.

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Seminar Reviews

Feedback from The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work® Seminar, a program of The Gottman Institute, led by Doug and Claudia Burford

  • “....right on TARGET for what we were looking for!”

  • "Thanks for the very informative session. I learned new 'tools' I can use to be a better communicator and partner."

  • “ A guide map for communication, how to strengthen and love and address conflicts/past.”

  • "The Love Maps and the antidotes to The Four Horsemen will be very helpful."

  • "The content was great, but the personal examples definitely made it relatable."

  • "Overall, this is a 5 out of 5 stars! Thanks!"

  • "I enjoyed experiencing this seminar with couples in all stages of life."

  • "A highlight for me was learning about conflict resolution in a safe, fair, and supportive way."

  • (I'm now) "...able to identify what the argument is really about, and identify how the other is processing things."

  • "This has been a roadmap to get our relationship back on track."

  • "My eyes have been opened more fully to the perpetual vs. solvable problems in any relationship."

  • “Giving language to conflict.  Very helpful when navigating arguments.”

  • "I feel less doomed about our conflict; it's a validation that although we need help resolving it, we are not broken because we have it."

  • “The methodical approach to relationships. What helped me the most was the scientific reasoning and physiological explanations of how we go through the different emotions.”

  • “Knowing and seeing all couples have similar issues AND there are ways to reverse bad patterns….HOPE!”

  • “Finding the words to verbalize some feelings/views that I had…up until this session, I had not been able to articulate.”

  • “The most valuable (tool)  was how to repair….the language to repair.”

  • “Hearing what is normal….what we are going through is not a deal breaker.”

  • "The best marriage seminar we've attended!"

  • “....how to BETTER recognize things within myself and the antidotes to overcome them.”

  • “....(We valued) the time and opportunity to deliberately focus on our marriage for a weekend.”

  • “I found all of the information given valuable.  Having the resources and tools to fall back on and practice together seems priceless to me.”

  • (I valued the terms) “help me understand” and “protecting each other”

  • “It’s great to have a common language to set the table for future healthy conversations.”

  • “It’s valuable to be reminded that marriage is a commitment that takes effort. Everyone deals with challenges and being reminded of that and working through strategies to improve is very valuable.”

  • “Remembering it’s not about me…..but WE!”